God’s order, deliverance from self, identity transformation, then deliverance from others

 Jacob lived for many years under Laban’s influence, a man who represents the worldly system, manipulation, self-interest, and dependence on human schemes. Although God had been with Jacob all along, Jacob’s spiritual perception was limited while he remained entangled in that environment. Only after he finally separated from Laban did God allow Jacob to experience a fresh and visible revelation of His care. Separation from worldly attachments often clears spiritual vision.

When they heard the king, they departed; and behold, the star which they had seen in the East went before them, till it came and stood over where the young Child was (Matthew 2:9).

The experience of the Magi perfectly echoes the principle seen in Jacob’s encounter at Mahanaim, that separation from worldly systems restores spiritual clarity and divine guidance. When the Magi left the city of Jerusalem, the star that led them to Bethlehem reappeared. When Jacob separated with Laban was now in a position to recognize God’s activity.

 

When Jacob saw the angels, he declared, it was God’s camp, and named the place Mahanaim, meaning two camps; Jacob’s and God’s camp. The principle here is not isolation from people, but detachment from worldly dependence and compromise. When Jacob stepped out in obedience, trusting God rather than human manipulation, God reassured him with divine protection. Intimacy with God sharpens spiritual discernment [James 4:8; Romans 12:2].

So Jacob went on his way, and the angels of God met him. 2 When Jacob saw them, he said, “This is God’s camp.” And he called the name of that place Mahanaim (Genesis 32:1-2).

Angels are always with us and are ordained by God to be our servants [Hebrews 1:14] as they served Jesus [Matthew 4:11]. In [2 Kings 6:15-17], Elisha’s servant had his eyes opened to see the tremendous angelic host surrounding them.

 

Jacob’s fear and panic

Jacob confronts Laban with remarkable courage. He rehearses his years of faithful service, his integrity, and the injustice he suffered. Jacob is bold because he is in the right. His conscience is clear. He had not wronged Laban, he has been wronged by him. This moral clarity produces confidence, courage, and freedom of speech. The righteous are bold as a lion [Proverbs 28:1]. When a person stands on truth and integrity, fear has no legitimate ground.

So Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed; and he divided the people that were with him, and the flocks and herds and camels, into two companies (Genesis 32:7).

In contrast, Jacob was afraid and distressed at the news of Esau’s approach. This fear was not merely about Esau’s strength, but Jacob’s unresolved guilt. Unlike his situation with Laban, Jacob knew that he wronged Esau, through deception, manipulation, and taking what was not rightly his. Even after 20 years, guilt does not expire with time. Jacob’s fear is intensified by the fact that, he fled without reconciliation and Rebekah, who promised to send word when Esau’s anger subsided [Genesis 27:45], had died before doing so. Thus, Jacob returns home uncertain, exposed, and inwardly condemned, which makes him vulnerable to fear.

 

The encounter at Peniel reveals how God lovingly but firmly dismantles human self-reliance in order to establish true dependence on Him. It is one of the most searching moments in Jacob’s life. God often waits until all human supports are removed. Jacob had sent his family, servants, and possessions ahead. The planner, negotiator, and schemer had no tools left. Aloneness exposed Jacob’s true condition, he could no longer manage his future by intelligence or strategy. Regrettably, Jacob had forgotten that had promised him protection and he had a special camp of angels to protect him [Genesis 32:1-2]. His fear and distress was not appropriate for someone under God’s protection.

I am not worthy of the least of all the mercies and of all the truth which You have shown Your servant; for I crossed over this Jordan with my staff, and now I have become two companies. 11 Deliver me, I pray, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau; for I fear him, lest he come and attack me and the mother with the children (Genesis 32:10-11).

Jacob did the right thing, he prayed in humility, full of faith, thanksgiving and God’s Word. Therefore, it is profitable to study the promises of God. Remember what God has said to men, and when He has said them, and to what kind of men he has said them, and discover by this means how far he has said them to you.

 

Jacob wrestles with God

The wrestling reveals Jacob’s lifelong pattern. Jacob had wrestled all his life, with Esau in the womb and for the birthright, with Isaac through deception, and with Laban through cleverness. The Angel of the Covenant allows Jacob to wrestle through the night, not because God lacks power, but because He is exposing Jacob’s false source of strength. For years, Jacob had trusted his mind, persistence, and willpower more than God.

Then Jacob was left alone; and a Man wrestled with him until the breaking of day. 25 Now when He saw that He did not prevail against him, He touched the socket of his hip; and the socket of Jacob’s hip was out of joint as He wrestled with him. 26 And He said, “Let Me go, for the day breaks.” But he said, “I will not let You go unless You bless me!” (Genesis 32:24-26).

When the Angel touches Jacob’s hip, the contest ends instantly. This was not a blow of cruelty but of precision. The hip represents strength, mobility, and independence. In one moment, God disables Jacob’s ability to stand on his own resources. This teaches a sobering truth, God will allow self-reliance to continue until it must be broken. He did not overpower Jacob at the beginning, He waited until Jacob’s strength was exhausted, then touched the very source of it.

 

Once crippled, Jacob could no longer wrestle, but he could cling. His words change from resistance to desperation. That he would not let Him go unless He blessed him. This is no longer the voice of pride but of surrendered dependence. [Hosea 12:3–5] tells us Jacob wept and pleaded. His tears reveal the breaking of his heart, not just his body. The man who once grasped blessings by deception now seeks them by grace. God “overcame” Jacob, not to destroy him, but to remake him. A rebellious person may appear to succeed for a time, but God remains sovereign. He allows the struggle to continue until His purpose is achieved. When God decides to act, resistance collapses instantly. Jacob limped away from Peniel, but he was changed. The limp was a lifelong reminder that power now came from God, not from himself.

 

Jacob’s name is changed

The name Jacob meant “heel-grabber,” a figure of deception, manipulation, and self-advancement. Jacob had lived up to his name. Though chosen by God, he consistently relied on cleverness rather than trust. Deep within, Jacob knew this. His fear of Esau was not only fear of judgment, it was shame over who he had been. Jacob had to say aloud his name before God could change him. He had to own his true identity without excuses.

And He said, “Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel; for you have struggled with God and with men, and have prevailed.” (Genesis 32:28).

The name Israel is a compound of two words: Sarah (fight, struggle, or rule) and El (meaning, God). Jacob longed to be saved from Esau, but God addressed a deeper problem. Esau was not Jacob’s greatest threat, Jacob himself was. His self-will, self-reliance, and manipulative instincts had to be broken before reconciliation could safely occur. God’s order is crucial, deliverance from self, transformation of identity, then deliverance from others. Without this inward change, Jacob might have repeated old patterns even if Esau forgave him.

 

A new name, meant a new governing principle. The principle of God ruling through broken dependence. Jacob did not prevail by overpowering God, he prevailed by refusing to let go in helpless faith. His strength was no longer in control, but in clinging. Additionally, he walked away with a limp, a physical reminder of a spiritual truth. This “memorial of weakness” was not humiliation but grace. It guarded Jacob from returning to self-reliance and kept him anchored in humility. The limp cost him little compared to what he gained, a transformed identity and restored relationship.


George G. Ruheni, PhD.

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